In a world where music often shies away from genuine emotional rawness, Beth Bombara’s “I Only Cry When I’m Alone” emerges as a breath of fresh air. With soul-stirring lyrics, an evocative voice, and a hauntingly beautiful melody, this track is a testament to the power of simplicity in songwriting. And from the first listen, you will be hooked. And hooked hard to this gem. We have been playing Beth’s music for several years on YTAA and while we are in love with her brilliant latest album, It All Goes Up, her previous albums and music require your undivided attention as well. Plus this video also features the excellent “Upside Down.”

Bombara, a native of Grant Rapids, Michigan has made St. Louis her home, and has a knack for crafting songs that cut straight to the core of the human experience, and “I Only Cry When I’m Alone” is no exception. The song begins with a Jangly guitar riff, setting a melancholic tone that persists throughout. Beth’s voice enters feeling like a whisper, soft but laden with emotion, immediately pulling the listener into her world.

The lyrics of the song are a poignant reflection on the struggles we often hide from the outside world. Bombara confesses, “I’m owning all my insecurities, Callin’ ’em out by name and watch the demons bleed,
They’re tryna hold me to the in-between,” as she explores the common human experience of concealing our pain and vulnerability, even from those closest to us. The words are heartfelt, relatable, and delivered with such sincerity that they linger in the mind long after the song ends.

One of the most remarkable aspects of this track is its ability to build tension and emotion without resorting to excess. Sometimes a whisper hits like the loudest scream. Beth Bombara’s vocals are the driving force, conveying a sense of solitude and fragility that captivates the listener. The song’s arrangement hits from the first, featuring a ’70s feel with jangly guitars and sparse yet driving percussion that holds the song in place, allowing the lyrics and Bombara’s voice to take center stage. The instrumentation creates an intimate atmosphere that underscores the theme of emotional isolation, it has the same sensibility of R.E.M.’s Camera when Stipe sings:

“Will you be remembered? Will she be remembered?
Alone in a crowd a bartered lantern borrowed
If I’m to be your camera then who will be your face?

Bombara’s excellent lyrics have the same impact as the R.E.M. classic. We all have felt the loneliness of solitude and being in a crowd and revealing how we truly feel, the hurts that cannot be contained anymore when we are away from the judging eyes of the world. As Beth sings and holds the word ‘alone’ for a few beats, the impact is even stronger and more unavoidable:

Invisible as air
Hoping  you still care
It  doesn’t matter where I go
I only cry when I’m alone
I  only cry when I’m alone

The song’s production values are impeccable, highlighting Beth Bombara’s unmistakable talents as a songwriter and performer. The mix is clean and balanced, allowing every element to shine through without overpowering the emotional core of the song. The soundscapes created by “I Only Cry When I’m Alone” are evocative, painting a picture of a solitary moment of vulnerability that anyone can relate to.

As “I Only Cry When I’m Alone” progresses, Bombara’s vocals gain strength and intensity, mirroring the idea of vulnerability gradually giving way to self-acceptance. The song’s crescendo is both musically and emotionally satisfying, a testament to Beth’s masterful storytelling.

Beth Bombara’s “I Only Cry When I’m Alone” is a perfect example of vulnerability, passion, the need for connection, and simple direct, and unflinching authenticity. In an atomized world of overproduction and artificial emotions, Bombara’s music stands out as a shining example of what it means to connect with an audience on a deep, emotional level. Her lyrics are poignant, her voice is captivating, and the arrangement is perfectly suited to the song. “I Only Cry When I’m Alone” is a testament to the enduring power of raw, honest songwriting and marks Beth Bombara as an artist to watch. It’s a timeless tune that will undoubtedly leave a lasting impression on anyone who takes the time to listen. Take the time to listen.